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clear、Buy a house、Travel around the world、marry、Give birth、elderly life…，Want to do a lot，But what can I do now? I will tell you today，How to rely on the "three questions"，clear
clear，But where to start and finish，Is the most difficult thing。How do I know what I can do now? First of all，You have to clarify the "three questions"。after that，"How to start?Will be solved。
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clearclearclear，Because each stage will have different dreams，And too many goals are unrealistic，Unable to achieve。So list up to five goals，And how long do I hope to complete。Regardless of physiological needs、Relationships，Or career planning、Future expectations，Can be regarded as a goal。E.g：I want to buy a house in ten years。
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clear，Consider your identity，And think about family、jobs、What restricts me from socioeconomic status。
Dreaming is the most beautiful，But we must also bow to reality。But don't worry，Bowing your head now doesn't mean you can't lift your head。To figure out the current situation is not to give up your dreams，But to make yourself towards the right goal，Move faster。Ask yourself what are the possible reasons that prevent me from achieving my goals in life? And write them down one by one。E.g：I don't have enough deposit。
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As long as I really want to do it，Anything can be done! (Excluding things that violate ethics)。But everything is hard to start，How to start is the biggest test。therefore，"Planning" is a very important part。Set life goals、After clarifying the reality，I also know what difficulties I encountered，You can start planning，Turn big problems into small problems，Small problems become okay。E.g：Start saving money tomorrow，Cost reduction by two thousand yuan a month。
Remarks：When you reach the third step，The task to be completed may be a little difficult，At this time, continue to disassemble the problem into smaller ones、Easier problems。You can also make the task more specific、More detailed completion time and completion method。E.g：Buy two less clothes a month。
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Find something to do now，You must keep asking yourself the above three questions："What do I want?"、"What restricts me?"、"How can I break the restrictions?"。In addition，You can also ask the same set of questions repeatedly，Make "planning" more perfect。E.g：From the original "I want to buy a house in ten years，But i don't have enough deposit，So I should save money。"Extends to "I want to reduce spending by 2,000 yuan per month，But the desire to shop makes me spend too much money，So I will buy two less clothes in a month。"The question is at the end，Which means "buy two less clothes a month"，Is already an easy goal。Start to complete life goals from now on，Will be much easier。
Now that the planning method is available，Then strike while the iron is hot，Pick up the paper and pen，Immediately draw up a blueprint of your own life goal! As for how to describe it? We can use mind maps to analyze this list of life goals。Examples are as follows：
Starting from the big goal (buying a house within ten years)，Find out that insufficient income and deposits are the main obstacles。therefore，In the next branch, it can be presented in two points，And indicate the main reasons for insufficient income and deposits。Keep exploring，Find something to do nowFind something to do now，Reading management books、Take communication classes and buy two less clothes a month。
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I believe that many people have read or heard the book "The Secret" - as long as there is a purpose in life，And want to achieve the goal，You will move towards the goal。This is actually very simple，When you want to accomplish something，Will naturally start planning。gradually，Shallow consciousness will tell itself that it must be done。There is a 34-year-old woman in Japan, Saki，Relying on 15 years of frugality，Bought three houses。The mental method she uses is to set the goal of life on the notepad：I will buy a second house at the age of 29；And bought the third building at the age of 34。In this way，Dreams will naturally be closer to reality，Will be completed along the way。(Extended reading：I believe that many people have read or heard the book "The Secret" - as long as there is a purpose in lifeI believe that many people have read or heard the book "The Secret" - as long as there is a purpose in life
I believe that many people have read or heard the book "The Secret" - as long as there is a purpose in life
I believe that many people have read or heard the book "The Secret" - as long as there is a purpose in life，Can draw a conclusion：The way to accomplish your goals in life is toThe way to accomplish your goals in life is to，Then kept asking myself "What do I want?"、"What restricts me?"、"How can I break the restrictions?"，And start planning right away。It is not difficult to accomplish life goals，The difficulty is whether you are willing to devote yourself to planning for the goal，And work hard for it。At last，Still an old saying，As long as you have the heart，It must be done! Go forward bravely toward your dream!
Further reading：
How to make yourself happy? Scientifically proven 5 ways to be happy
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